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When I first saw the meaning of this word, the following song was the first thing to come to mind. This line especially has even more meaning now since May 26, the day that David had the first of three strokes: “…you never know when life will leave us”.
Today is a significant day in our lives. On 15 July 1993, the day started out like any other day. It ended with a stillborn daughter. Her name is Dorian Lee McClendon. She would be 23 years old today.
We don’t know when we’ll be called to say good-bye. Hold your loved ones close, people. You never know when that hug, or that kiss, or that smile will be the last one. To paraphrase our youngest daughter, “Make that last page a happy one.”
When You Lie Next to Me by Kellie Coffey
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Please also visit our hostess Rosema over at Word-High July.
Disclaimer: These Filipino word images are from an article by Isabelle Laureta on BuzzFeed titled “36 Of The Most Beautiful Words In The Philippine Language”. All credit goes to them.
oh dear. oh dear. *hugsssss*
thank you for sharing this with us.Love to you and your family. I believe she’s an angel now. ❤
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Thank you, Rosema. Yes, she is in Heaven now, waiting for us to get there. She’s in good company, too. My grandma went there just before she did. It hurt so very much to lose my grandma, but I like to think that she went ahead so that she would be there when our baby Dorian got there. I can picture her holding our baby girl and loving her for me until I can get there, too. Thank you. Have a blessed day. ❤️
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awwwww. that’s a very beautiful view, Suz. ❤ Blessings back to you!
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Thank you, Rosema. 🙂
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my pleasure! 😀
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very true words, we never know when we will lose a loved one (or anyone) so we should treat them accordingly.
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Sometimes I think it would be better if we could know in advance, to prepare ourselves for the grief ahead. But, really, there is no way to deal with the grief in advance. No matter how you prepare when you know it is coming, it still hits like a ton of bricks. We should make sure that our loved ones know how much we loved them and be nice to all. Thank you for your visit and commenting. Have a blessed day.
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The song that says “Live like you were dying” is true. We should mend those fences and show the ones we love that we love them. I am not going to try the bull ride he suggests though. Just walking to the car is like a wild 8 second ride.
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Yes, getting about is getting more and more difficult and this heat is not helping at all. Love you.
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I’m so sorry to hear about your loss. I feel so affected by this post for some reason, I’m 24 and can somehow feel your pain at not seeing her turn 23. I hope you are doing okay ❤️
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Thank you, Nashrah. I appreciate your kind comments. I am okay. It is just a tearful day of remembering for me. In my heart, I know that she is in a much better place. Nothing can ever hurt her. She is safe, healthy, and happy with Jesus. Have a blessed day. ❤️
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She is in a better place, in a place closer to God!
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Exactly. Of all of mybabies, while I long to be with her, I do not have to worry about her. She is taken care of by our Heavenly Father. 🙂
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Take care of yourself 🙂
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Thank you. You take care, too. 🙂
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Thank you for sharing a very personal chapter in your lives. Although people leave us their spirits remain forever in our hearts.
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You’re welcome, Davy, and thank you for commenting. Very true, she will always be and have a part of me. Have a blessed day.
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Oh dear. This is truly a poignant and heartfelt post. Thank you so much for serving as an inspiration to us, Suzanne. And also for sharing with us an important part of your life. ❤
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Thank you, Maria. What a kind comment. I appreciate it very much. Have a blessed day. ❤
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So sorry for the loss of your daughter. The anniversaries … I know… as we have a daughter in heaven, too. We will all meet again, I’m sure. ❤
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I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter as well. Who knows, maybe they’ve met up there and become friends, too. ❤
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Thank you. That is a wonderful thought, Suzanne! ❤
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Thank you! Have a great weekend. 🙂
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